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put .38 in her hand and tell her to do it herself

 

first off if u back down and let her and her friends get there way. They will never respect u once a woman know that u r weak mind or have a weak backbone they they will treat u like shit or she will leave u bc most women want a real man that stands up 4 ur self and speaks there mind. Second if u say if the dogs go u go if she truely loves u once u start packing ur bags she will come and talk u out of leaving or if ur woman is real strong she will let u leave and as soon as that door shuts she will break but that is only if she truely loves u. Third and finall if u want to break her and her mother hand ur wife the gun and say if u want this dogs gone go put them down then bc thats what she is doing if the leave ur house they will be domed to be put down. and this way u know that they didnt suffered

 

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bohawg00 Your not all wrong i'm not gona say i'm a wimp, but i give in and then the shoe fits.

Her mom s says to my wife he needs to get rid of those dogs and show up for Christmas with his head held high that he did what a man needs to do , funny how back bone and respect are from all who decide the rules of the game . Clearly if I force the issue I will get zero respect from her mom and seem like a little boy who does not want to get rid of his toys , lets see how the day goes for now I’m going to put my dogs out on the chain now it’s a nice day out
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i dont get you at all pit#5 sounds like your b s or putty whiped.you took these dogs in and your the world to them. over a cat and a contolling wife your willing to abuse your dogs by dropping them off at a sheter.you should have known what kind of dog a pit is before you got it.you have a responsiblity to atleast find them homes.shelters dont care where they go or care if therer a no kill shelter thats what they call them here unless its a pit.chain them in the back tell you find homes.if you care any about yor dogs youll do the right thing.this is why pounds are filling with pits due to eresponsible owners.

 

My wife
is always trying to get rid of me. The other day she told me to put the garbage out. I said to her I already did. She told me to go and keep an eye on it.
Rodney Dangerfield

 

My male is no way going to a shelter no frigen way, the young female might go to the no kill They do adopt out Pits there I have seen plenty get adopted from them <O:p</O:p

 

Pit#5, Get rid of the dogs,what is more important your family or the dogs? say in about 7 or 9 years from now the dogs most likely will be just a memory unless you plan to breed them but,your family will still exist. find another hobby,it seems that you are too WEAK to go against the grain some people just aren't cut out for the dogs. this is JMO, which doesn't make it right.

 

I agree Rose my point was more for him to stand up for himself with the dogs but you are exactly right if he can't fight for the dogs he shouldn't own the dogs.

 

I agree.

If your decision is to get rid of the dogs, then find responsible homes for them. Until then, they are STILL your responsibility. It was your choice to have them, now make sure you do the right thing.

And I'll say it again, if this was my dogs, there would be no way I'd get rid of them. I don't care if it's family or not. Responsibility is until the dog dies naturally, NOT by the hands of strangers at the pound.

 

pit#5, as previously commented, your family may be more important, but what about your dogs, oh yes send them of to the pound, ha, i'm sure they will get the best of life, ffs wake up man , i bet they wont be there long ,, either put to sleep or passed on again and again, you beleive what they tell you at the pound , i dont think so;; you bought these animals as pups i would believe , i may be wrong,; but then your good lady can go out and buy another kitten, but if the kitten wanders of, of its domain and harm is done to it by another living creature , be it a dog ,cat, snake or what ever, will all these creatures , then be subject to execution, i feel, you have posted on here , for either back-up, which you have recieved or to make your self feel justified for your wifes reactions, its up to you, but either way you lose

 

You mean to tell US that because YOU can not deal with your Mother-In-Law, and the rest of your wife family, that YOU are willing to put your pets out in the cold? Man you need to grow a pair of nuts and man up. I'm not being a dick, but maybe YOU shouldn't have these wonderful dogs in your life. Don't take them too ANY kind of shelter, you know how most UNeducated people feel about the great APBT. If you give up your happiness, you're giving up on who you are as a MAN. I say Fuck the In-laws, and if the wife can't understand that, then fuck her too. Just keeping it REAL with you bro.

 

Look at how you sound. " A little boy" is right. What are you even doing with a GB dog? Did/do you even know what you're saying?

 

Look at how you sound. " A little boy" is right.

 

[ YOU are willing to put your pets out in the cold? Man you need to grow a pair of nuts and man up. I'm not being a dick, but maybe YOU shouldn't have these wonderful dogs in your life. Don't take them too ANY kind of shelter,( good point!my op get good homes and never own a pit again stick with a poodle.

 

a shelter is just NOT a good place for dogs in general, let alone bulldogs!
you either have to find them some GOOD rescue group or adopter or have them PTS.
shelters will adopt your bulldog to the first guy with the 75 bucks, and those dogs are NOT for everyone!

they are your dogs and you do whatever you want with them, but for the sake of your dogs, be reponsible and PTS both of them or rehome them with some good, responsible apbt owners.

 

the wife will probably sling you out sooner or later whatever you do ,
so tell her bollox more important tell the inlaws their out of your will , dig your heels in and stand your ground , if it all goes tits up then take off with the dogs ,
dont abandan them they wouldnt abandon you , if you lose this battle how can you ever have freedom of choice again , better to die fighting than live on your knees ,

 

Sine the first day you came on this board you have had mistake after mistake with these dogs. It is one thing to make a mistake but learn from them and move on. So now to hear you want (your wife wants to) to get rid of the dogs does not surprise me. Honestly your are not a great owner since you seem to have trouble in the short time you have had these dogs. Maybe it is for the best, If you cannot find homes for them on your own then put them down. To many dogs go to the wrong homes and the pound is the worst place they can go. I feel bad for the dogs

 

Those dogs are your responsibilty, and yours alone. Either shoot both of them,
or keep them. THATS THE TRUTH the rest is bull shit

 

I have read all your statements, I am doing the best I can we are all individuals with different ways, but lets see the seeds you people have planted in me.
Mean wile the no kill shelter felt female was to old since my wife told them she was a 5 months old pup but really was 9 months with full canines so I still have the dog ,my wife is very happy now that she still has Girley dog (I am being driven nuts here) she was crying no body’s going to put my baby to sleep. Then she starts looking at the other PB’s already at the pound with sadness. From this point its gona be up to her shut her mouth when people have what to say. I defend the breed the best I can during interrogation.
At the pound the dog proved friendly to other dogs and even a cat that acted with no fear they just sniffed each other, another cat in a cage hissed and that was it . I am impressed with my dogs ability to at least be friendly to animals willing to befriend her on the surface atleast..
Now Performance K you may be some what correct I am not the ultimate owner but I am honest for the good of all, if I mess up I tell it true, some PB owners are way better then I, some other members I have to assume, have had issues also, but they will never tell any one for fear of ridicule and such.
I take safe guards and now my wife finally sees the value of my safety measures
My next step I am going to build 2 separate lockable kennels as long as I have the 2 dogs
Its game on.

 

I'd like to see good things come of all of this, but man what a drama.:confused:
If the wife lets everyone in on their homelife, and this guy is out on a limb by himself over everything, he is doomed anyways. Oh, and I am a wife..