I am back !

Well the last 3 weeks have been hell here, I survived obviously. To start off almost 3 weeks ago my city passed some really BAD BSL. I am helping fight it and in doing so have become a target for the dog warden and the city. SO I had to move all my dogs outside the city. They are split up between two friends of mines kennels. So they are safe right now. Its really strange having only 3 dogs here. My Am Staff Bane, My Rottie, and my GSD. But until this BSL gets repealed or I can get the money together to move (not likely right now and I will explain in a minute) My dogs will have to stay at my friends kennels. Both are only about 3 hours away so I get to see them every weekend.

Right after this whole BSL thing happened my boyfriend dropped the straw that broke the camels back and I broke up with him. So there is 5 years wasted. He is into those online role playing games and was just getting out of hand. He was to the point he was waking up, get on the game till the very last second, go to work, come home straight onto the game until 7 or 8 am the next morning, go to sleep wake up and the whole cycle started over. Half the time I dont think he could tell reality from the game. He would start telling me something like it was real life and I would have to be like wait what are you talking about. People from the game were calling my house from Japan, Canada, Europe, ect and asking for him by his game name. He wouldnt help me do anything around the house. I painted and redid the floor in the hallway and he wouldnt even get off the game to help me pull the carpet out or even help me take it down the steps and outside. He was always being mean to my dogs, yelling at me more and more about everything, he was to the point he had jealousy issues with my mom, and started accusing me and my best friend of being lesbians, We ALWAYS invited him to come out with us and he always refused, had to play the game, so I started saying F this and going without him, so he started accuseing me of cheating on him. It was getting so bad I didn't even want to come home most of the time. I tried to reason with him, and finally it came down to its me or that f'in game. He said I wont stop playing the game. So I said well then we are done. I wasn't even really sad about it at this point because it has been over between us really for the past 6 - 7 months. Well he went totally insane. He ransacked my house one night while I was gone. He was calling me and calling me every name he could think of, threatening me, even had his dad call me and threaten me. Then he started stalking me on myspace and sending me nasty emails telling me I should do everyone a favor and kill myself. And during all this that son of a b**** was calling my best friend crying to her I dont understand why she wont talk to me, leaving her voicemails begging her to "talk some sense into me". THEN he writes this rediculous blog on myspace trying to create a pitty party for himself. EVERYTHING I said to him why I was breaking up with him he wrote it on there and then turned it around saying it was me that did that shit! Of course that worked and all his little myspace girls were all over that shit, oh poor you. I am not saying I was innocent cause I did shit that pissed him off, he put up with my dogs (even if he was not nice to them ), but the way he reacted only confirmed I did the right thing and let me tell you I am SO much happier and wish I had done this 6 months ago when stuff started to turn really bad. So that is where I have been the past 3 weeks, dealing with this BS, but things are starting to get better. I changed my number and the emails on myspace are getting less in volume so maybe " HE " is starting to get a grip on reality and move on. So anyways thanks for letting me vent and explain where I was

 

Good Ol' RelationSH!TS! Gotta love em.

 

holy moly......i'm glad the dogs are safe.... and I'm glad you are away from a guy that, IMO, has some issues...

 

Whew! That sounded ROUGH! I ended a relationship like that once...it wasn't online gaming he was addicted to, though, it was porn:rolleyes:...it sounds like both of them are equally as bad!

I think it was when I intercepted the brochure in the mail for "mail order brides" that I knew it was over...:cool:. True story.

Glad you're back and all that is behind you. BTW what's your myspace addy? :p

 

Glad you got rid of the turd that didn't want to be flushed. I hope things work out well for you and the dogs.

 

He must have been playing World Of Warcraft LOL
It is the new addiction.

 

yup had to be world of warcraft its a home wrecker haha... My brother plays it for days on in.

 

LMAO No its WORSE that World of Warcraft ( but he did play that as well as Diablo at one point )........


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