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miakoda
09-10-2005, 11:24 AM
After reading several posts on this forum & some from another forum, I have come to realize that most people would stick it out with their pets no matter the conditions. But I also want to bring up another aspect to this problem.

Thousands upon thousands of people lost their pets during Hurricane Katrina. And while we all say we would've stayed with ours no matter what, many others who also felt this way in the end, could not. I want to bring to light that just because some could not stay, it doesn't mean they loved their animals any less than you or I do. I lost some of my dogs when an oak tree came crashing down onto a portion of my house where several dogs were resting in their kennels. I did all I could to protect them. Mother Nature just goes by her own rules.

However, many of us know someone else who lost everything, not because she deserted her pets or let them down, but only because she had to think as a mother & as a wife. When you are presented with only 24 hours to get EVERYTHING you love & cherish out of your home & to a safe place, it's usually not feasible. More like impossible. Several people were forced to think as husbands, as wives & as fathers & mothers to save themselves & their children from certain death. Can you honestly say what you would do when you have almost no time & definitely no places to get your animals out so you & your family stay with them, only to be faced with Category 5 hurricane & a poss 30 ft. storm surge (which easily reached 25ft in actuality)? Looking at the distraught & frightened faces of your children, can you honestly say you would've turned the other way & stuck in out knowing that y'alls chances of survival are slim?

Several people had to make a split-second decision to get their children to safety no matter the cost. However that cost included the lives of animals. Does this make them bad people? No. Most certainly not.

But most of these people are being shunned by their fellow peers & once though friends b/c they had to make a choice b/n their lives & the lives of their pets. We don't have children yet, & no matter how hard the decision would be, I could never EVER put a child's life at risk of certain death all in the small hope of a miracle that all would be spared. That's just the way it is.

It's come to my attention that Diane Jessup is once again tooting her own horn & bringing her wrath down upon victims of this hurricane for leaving pets behind. She says we saw this coming weeks in advance. But she is wrong! (what a surprise). While she sits upon her self-given throne up there in Washington State, she's chosen to not acknowledge the FACT that LA & MS were in no danger of this storm until 2 days before it hit! The storm suddenly shifted & gained strenght in a whole new way that had been predicted. What she also doesn't understand is that people only had less than 18hrs to get things out of their homes before contraflow began. Contraflow is where interstates are used to provide only 1-way access out of the evacuating areas. Once you leave your home, that's it. You cannot go back. Contraflow began the Sat. night before the storm.

It pisses me off greatly to hear Jessup (& her croonies) state that people (Whiskey in particular) are at fault for basically "murdering" their own animals! Where the hell was she when it came to opening up homes to evacuating people & animals? Where was she in the fight to persuade hotels to allow a family & their pit bull to take up shelter there? Where was she in donating trucks & trailers to go help evacuate animals? NOWHERE! I'm sick & tired of people like her speaking out that the VICTIMS of the hurricane are at fault for losing everything they had! The truth is, there was no time! There was no way! And there was not 1 hotel that would allow pit bulls to stay there!

So anyone who feels as she does, go do humanity a favor & jump off a bridge! She & others like her are a disgrace not only to the breed but to mankind itself! (feel free to crosspost to bring this to her & others attention!)

We need to embrace the victims of Hurrican Katrina, not push them further into a hole of despair. Many are committing suicide b/c they see no compassion & kindness from others about their situation. That should not be happening!

I asking, begging, that everyone one of you try to find 1 person to help & do what you can to help them! This does not mean you have to donate money if you're not financially able to do so. This means offer a kind ear for someone to talk to. Write letters to anonymous people in shelters just stating that you care for them & can see the pain they're going though & that you will do what you can to make things a little bit easier. Send books to the children. Write a letter to a child telling them that there are people they don't know out there who love them.............

I'm overcome with tears as I'm writing this. The enormity of this disaster is overcoming. There are sooooo many people hurting, but if we begin by helping one person at a time, then we are taking one step forward. And each step forward is a step towards rebuilding lives and homes & reuniting families.

Thanks for listening to my thoughts & rants. Y'all are unbelieveable people & I'm so grateful to this board & you all for all the compassion & overwhelming support. It's nothing short of amazing.




miakoda
09-10-2005, 11:30 AM
I also want to mention that the compassion & overwhelming support from this game-dog community is not going unnoticed. This board has several guests viewing that are seeing & beginning to understand what APBT owners truly are & what they are about. This board is helping daily to break down the stereotype of pit bull owners. And that's a battle all it's own, but one we will soon win.

MRS_FIFTY
09-10-2005, 11:35 AM
Mia......you are nothing short of an amazing woman.

nappydawg
09-10-2005, 11:41 AM
i can say that i would not have left mine behind cause i have no kids and don't really own anything besides them so thats how it is i can say that in all honesty i would not leave them. but yes i do understand your point kids or dogs well i would do my best for the animals but kids would come first. and as celt said you are truly an amazing person.

mydawgs
09-10-2005, 11:44 AM
Mia -

I have seen the same self rightous indignation from Diane as well as on another forum I go to for training info. It would be so nice to have the afluence and resources required to just pack up and "hang out" for awhile with your entire family and ALL your pets. Some people just do not have the capacity to even think in the terms that some of these Katrina victoms were forced to face and required hard, soul searching decisions. So I say to them, may the good Lord bless you and keep you from the agony of those who did what they had to do....but in my head I say, "in the mean time shut the f*ck up and thank your lucky stars it wasn't you".

Cheer up girl........those who matter are with you and all the others that are in need!

DryCreek
09-10-2005, 12:11 PM
Bless you MIA,you are truely an inspiring woman.

Luigi
09-10-2005, 12:16 PM
Well said, Mia. Who has the right to judge???

14rock
09-10-2005, 12:20 PM
Mia-I almost get the feeling that you feel people are blaming you, or someone you know closely. I can tell this topic is very personal to you and I am so sorry you had to go through this:(. I stated in another thread of yours that I feel I would of stayed even if it meant death so that I didnt leave my first dog behind. However, I have no kids, and this is the only reason I could say that. I dont see how anyone could blame someone for choosing a human life over their pets. We all love our animals to death, but truth be told, they are still animals. I just really wish people would stop doing nothing but playing the blame game and complaining ''so and so isnt doing his job, isnt fulifilling his duties", you know what, I think if they have time to sit and bitch about other people, they arent using their time wisely and helping either! First priority needs to be to save everyone, rebuild and try to get back to normal. Then we will have time to blame people, see what could of been done diffrent and what was done right. Some people are just so fascinated with darkness something and only tell of the bodies in the street, only want to talk of how morbid and rotten it is down there, all they can do is show the terrible things and point fingers when in actuality, all I see is light. I see the strength of the sould perservering in everyone who was affected, I see this entire country coming to do their best to support people they dont know. I see most people radiating a light from them of goodness and compassion that up until this, I doubted was there. It is a shame that all this happened, that mother nature had to show her power, but this is bringing us all closer together and we will be stronger because of it. Mia, you and everyone else down there needs to know, this entire country is praying for you brave souls, and when that many people pray so sincerely for one unselfish thing, miracles are bound to happen. Stay strong mia, we're all here for you!

miakoda
09-10-2005, 12:23 PM
Just to make things a little clearer, we were under a voluntary evacuation order, but b/c of the animals, we did stay. Out of 30 houses on our little street, only 5 of us families chose to stay only because of our dogs.

Marinepits
09-10-2005, 09:30 PM
"Mia, we are all here for you......you are and have been an inspiration to all of us!"

So true.
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miakoda
09-11-2005, 10:27 AM
I'm not just saying this, but this is for Marty & Shon & each & everyone one of you on the game-dog forum: Y'all are the people who are truly amazing. You all have extended y'alls hearts, y'alls ears, & y'alls resources to take care of people whom you don't know that well. It's an amazing thing to see happen. I like I told someone before, we owe it all to our dogs for that is what has brought us together & will keep us from ever falling apart!

Marty
09-11-2005, 10:41 AM
Mia... this is how I feel if I didn't have surgery coming up tuesday I would hitchhike to LA and do what I could to save as many animals as I could, my heart goes out to you all, it saddens me to know you are having to go through this, but you know we are with you, and you are in our thoughts and prayers as always, if theres anything we can do I will do all That I can, we love ya Mia as always.
Keep your head up girl were behind you ;)

Shon
09-11-2005, 12:58 PM
Lol, that either came from all of my drill instructing or the lack of as of late :p

But either way, it's working to a decent degree. You'll never hear me say anything is perfect, there is always room for improvement.

mydawgs
09-11-2005, 02:08 PM
Mia... this is how I feel if I didn't have surgery coming up tuesday I would hitchhike to LA and do what I could to save as many animals as I could, my heart goes out to you all, it saddens me to know you are having to go through this, but you know we are with you, and you are in our thoughts and prayers as always, if theres anything we can do I will do all That I can, we love ya Mia as always.
Keep your head up girl were behind you ;)
Yo Marty -

Good luck with the back...let me know how it goes!!!!

Judy
09-11-2005, 06:49 PM
This forum is amazing. I am in a few forums (!) and the help and support the members are providing here is unprecedented. Amazing......
I feel the same way.

Big Papa
09-11-2005, 06:56 PM
ur inspire is great