Dogs and Depression

[NCPatchwork]

I am Bi-polar...something no one knew here that I am aware of. Well, I'm going through one of my "depression spells." Is it possible that Phantom can sense this? He has been acting sorta down also and will even avoid me when I am really upset....I'm confused and I don't want him being depressed and I've tried all I can to help him out, but I feel lost....any suggestions...or thoughts...

[catcher T]

just my guess here,,,I believe he sense's something is different,,I am not convinced he is "sad" in the concept that we know it,,don't comfort behaviors from him that u don't like,,still treat him the same,,and keep the same routine that u always have with him. hope u feel better too.

[simms]

Got to make your self get up ......develope an exercise regimon,alt your diet to meet your special needs. This will help you

Walk your dog every day, get an e-mill for the days you cant get out.
play ball or flirt pole with him...that special lil game that gets him excited...be a good boost for you too :)

[MercedesMama]

I'm sure he senses something different about you. I agree with catcher on this one. Dont change anything like routines and things like that, he needs to get used to your down times or he'll get freaked out everytime. I hope everything goes well, hit me up if ya need an "ear"

[kane85]

i agree with everyone just keep him on a routine and dont change the way you act with him and hope you feel better.

[Fotno]

My Mom has been Bi-Polar, with varying intensity, all of her adult life. She got a little Beagle several years back, and he's been great company to her. I can tell that when she's down, she acts differently (not mean or cruel, just distant) around him, and it has impacted his personality somewhat. He seems to know when she's feeling badly, and tries to attach himself more to her, and when she rebuts him, he sulks, and is destructive. When she's up, she's a far better owner, and manages his time and activities better.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that he rides the roller-coaster with her, and it seems to be somewhat detrimental to his well-being also. I hope all goes well, both for you and your dogs. I know all too well what you're going through, and I hope this valley is brief.

[Envy's Mom]

Well first I would like to say I hope that you get better soon. I know that when I'm down I am kinda lazy, unmotivated, and not fun. My female Envy sences that and gets bored too. She will put her head on the couch and whine like she wants to do something. If I take her out and play with her it does wonders for the both of us. Sometimes its harded to get up then others, but I know that if I get up we will both feel better. At least a little bit. Tru to keep your normal routine with him and he should adjust. If I were you I would force myself to play his favorite game or activity at least once a day and see if during that time he cant make you laugh or enjoy yourself more. Good luck and I hope you get better soon. If you need a friend I am here for you.